Off the shoulder

Just loving the off the shoulder work shirts , especially in these blisteringly hot days of late . You can keep it formal yet cool .

 

Picked this blue beaut up from Zara.

Shoes : Europa Art
Jeans: Topshop
Shirt: Zara

 

 

 

 

Sundaze

last Sundays laziness

 

Getting the edge with Stella McCartney

I simply cannot get enough of Stella McCartney’s platform oxfords.

 These shoes offer height without sacrificing comfort, and have an edgy-meets-preppy vibe that pairs well with a variety of looks( both formal and casual).



Stella McCartney’s platform oxfords

Vest: Zara
Skirt: Topshop
Shoes: Stella McCartney



We are all UNIQUE and that is were our individual beauty lies

 

 

"Don't compare yourself with anyone in this world ..., if you do so, you are insulting yourself" - Bill Gates

 

I felt the need to speak out on this , after a conversation this week where I found myself injecting confidence into a beautiful individual that the colour of your skin does not define your beauty . It was a conversation that pierced the core of my heart that "society" could impact such a beautiful human's confidence so much when I have always had the highest regard for their INNER and outer beauty.

 

There are no gatekeepers to beauty and beauty has no shade.

 It does not matter what that commercial on the T.V says. It does not matter what society says because as we all know, the “ways” of society are fleeting. What’s considered beautiful or “in” today may be ugly or “out” tomorrow.

 

True beauty isn’t fleeting because it transcends the physical. Beauty is confidence. Confidence in your own skin. Be it dark or light. Confidence in who you are, exactly the way God has created you. Beauty is kindness, compassion, humility and love.

 

It is the respect for your fellow human being. It is heart-deep.

 

The next time you hear a shallow human making a remark on another's skin tone , take a moment and feel sorry for them . They are un-beknowingly exposing their own insecurities that lie within them.

 

People that have to make others feel less , are the actual ones lacking within,  and they derive their strength from creating insecurities in others.

 

Beauty comes in every colour - Just how AWESOME is that !



 

Cannot get enough of this colour

Today's OOTD

Sissy Boy outfits always make me feel so fly

 

Matching Vest and Skirt: Sissy Boy
Heels: Guess

 

Black Out

On Friday’s I love wearing my cloak , which I honestly find to be part of my most elegant clothes in my wardrobe . I love the freedom it gives me , the flowiness of its movement , the comfort , the silky feel … and of course the look as I find them absolutely elegantly gorgeous.

 

My under clothes when I wear my cloak is usually a staple pair of tights and a black tank or a t-shirt , as I find these most comfortable for my work day wear, and I find that they “carry” the cloak so much better.

 

Today’s rave is dedicated to tights as EVERYONE should have a good few pairs of black tights in their closets given they are the most comfortable pieces of clothing and can be glammed up, glammed down , worn as pj’s , sweats , for frump days (we all have those) , or just as an under garment (as I plan on wearing mines today)

 

Given just HOW versatile they are , I can honestly say that I have owned way too many, due to my tights getting ruined by over use  , so finding the right pair that ticks the box in comfort , look and durability was a huge plus for me .

 

I decided to purchase a few pairs of Wolford tights last year (Hyde Park outlet) and have been absolutely blown by the quality and wear these tights give ! They have been washed, and worn so many times , and to me, look the same as the day I unwrapped them from the box .

 

Yes , the high price might scare off some budget-minded people (as the average at about R800.00 a pair) , but these are an investment in your fashion future. One pair can last for years—a reliable and significant improvement on most ultra-disposable options in the market today.

 

The Wolford tights are thick but not ludicrously so, warm enough for an average chilly day, and attractive under a range of outfits. They have a comfortable but secure waistband, the material feels silky and luxurious, with an even opacity and a smooth finish that resists snags and pulls.(huge plus here)

 

This purchase is a value for money as its evident in the high-quality construction, which means these will be a fixture in your closet for years to come.

 

My opinion – next time you are out there replacing a pair of your tights that have faded or become ratty with all the snags, make a stop at Wolford and have a look at a their wide range of tights … you will not be tights shopping again.

Into the Fray - #Black Days

 

 

I just love ripped jeans, so my adoration for raw hem jeans is a no brainer. Raw hem jeans work just like normal skinny jeans, but with a much more unique appearance.

 

 

Today's work OOTD is all things black , and I used my black raw hemmed jeans that I purchased at Berksha on my recent trip to Instanbul to make up my casual-formal look of the day.

 

What I love about these ripping's is the fringe on the denim can make a subtle or bold statement (with this pair allowing me to use it for formal wear without looking hippy at work)

 

Shoes: Burberry

Belt: Hermes

 

 

On my previous blog on ripped jeans, I mentioned that too much fraying can be overkill, and the raw hem jean provides the fraying in the "right quantity" in a " contained section" , keeping the look classy. This look is a must have for your jeans collection.

 

Where can I get them ?

 

Well, Topshop provides hem fraying on the jeans of your choice purchased at Topshop , allowing you to choose the desired level of ripping ( I just love having choice)

 

OR

 

You can do a bit of your own DIY on a pair of jeans at home (tried and tested - its not difficult)

 

1. Turn your jeans up on the outside to the length you’re after (I’d recommend putting them on and doing this with the help of a mirror or a friend) and pin along the crease.
2. Fold the turn-ups down, and use the pins as a guide to cut along.
3. Fray with your fingers as much or as little as you like.

 

easy peasy lemon squeezy !

ENJOY

 

I've got the Blues

Today is going to be fly ... cos I'll make it so

#mindsetmatters

 

Shades: Dior

Heels: Aldo

Jeans : Topshop (Leigh)

Top: Witchery
Necklace : Woolworths

 

Wednesday Reflections : Our Passions Drive Us

 

WOW , these last three weeks have been insanely crazy ones for me .... trying to find the balance between work and life .As a CEO I have come to accept that a 9 to 5 does not exist for me.

Of late , these last few weeks have became one of those - a 24/7 , no switch off one.

At present I'm still on it like a rash , and with all the time and energy its taken out of me , this weekends reflections has had me revisiting and reaffirming this, that;

“Working hard for something we don't care about is called stress: Working hard for something we love is called passion.”
― Simon Sinek

All of this is justified, as its driven by the passion, appreciation and gratitude for what I do .This is the energy that drives me to work everyday , that spurs me on through moments of frustration and exhaustion , that reminds me to get up when I'm about to give up .... its in the climatic satisfaction on successful accomplishment of a project driven by teamwork that infuses through me at the end.

it's worthit!

 

This is what we should aim to attain through our sweats ...

Its possible ... we can all achieve work that's passion . For me, its been trial and error over the years... but at this very moment I can now call my work passion.

 

here is to a few more weeks of this !

 

Skirt and Shirt : Custom Made
Shoes: Nine West
What's in my hand ? - its a prop (Smoking Kills)

 

 

For the love of shoes

 Can we just stop for a moment and appreciate this beauty ...

 

Velvet Desire

No catchy title needed here , the name says it all ...

 

DOLCE & GABBANA

Velvet Desire

"Tuberose and the Italian Renaissance.
A journey through time dominated by
white flowers and tuberose which in the language
of flowers signifies carnal passion,
forbidden to young Renaissance women
due to its powerful aphrodisiac powers.
An expression of timeless sensuality"

 

I have always been a lover of woody, spicy fragrances , as they appeal deeply to my senses.

 

Velvet Desire to me oozes woody and spicy notes rather than floral ones. Its scent is 'dark, mysterious and rich' , and I find it irresistible to wear with all things oozing elegance.

An absolute love !

 

 

 

A moment to smell the Flowers

DOLCE & GABBANA

NO

 they most definitely

DO NOT disappoint...

 

The craftsmanship in these shades, and the use of precious details characterize the Dolce & Gabbana  Flowers Lace Sunglasses. The frames are enhanced by Swarovski crystals and hand-modelled rose buds.

 

The Flower Collections have a vast number of shades options , some with details of Sicilian Lace applied of the frames giving a beautiful effect.

 

These are statement piece shades and qualify and collectors items in my glasses closet !

 

 

 

 

Not your average T-Shirt

If you get a chance , stop at Zara this weekend and get yourself one of these tee's ...

I had to contain myself from buying them ALL, and finally managed to choose just one - (its because of the black detail) . The colours options are amazing , the pocket detail adds a unique finish and the feel of the material is dreamy ...

 

"not your average t-shirt"

 

 

 

 

 

Tie me Tuesdays

 

 

Shirt: Burberry
Shoes: Mimco

Pants: Mango (Formal)

Tie : Woolworths Man
Watch : Hublot
Belt: Hermes